Patanahi

It's kinda funny how life can change Can flip 180 in a matter of days Sometimes love works in mysterious ways One day you wake up gone without a trace The lyrics of the songs were never more meaning full. .... I refused to give up I refused to give in You're my everything I don't wanna give up I don't wanna give in, oh no .... Late at night I'm still wide awake Feel this is far more than I can take I thought my heart could never break Now I know that's one big mistake .... one more... why did u break my heart... Why did u fall in love... why did u go away... dil mera churiya kyu... Jab yeh dil toodna he tha... Hum se dil lagaya kyu... Hum se mooh mood na he tha... dil ko dhadkana tu ne C-kah-Ya... dil ko taadapna tu ne C-kah-Ya... Aakho mein aasu chupe they kahi... Inko chalak na tu ne C-Kha-Ya... C-Ne-Mein basaya kyu... dil se jab khel na hi tha... Hum se dil lagaya kyu... Hum se mooh mood na he tha... milte thi nazare jab bhi nazar se... ut te the shooley jais...

Only negative thoughts come to mind when everything is not going well and human nature is to get tempted to end it rather then suffer... When there is a crisis we tend to find a more simpler cause or reason to convince ourselves that this was bound to happen, rather than go deep into the problem, apply a reasonable analysis and try to solve the problem. Most of the times we try to find reasons which have nothing to do with us. Just by saying "look she/he is seeing someone else so she/he initiated a fight over a silly reason and ended the relationship, I had nothing to do..." We try to get away from the problem. We always try to save our head then try to set things right.

"Relationships are hard. It's like a full-time job, and we should treat it like one. If your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to leave you, they should give you two weeks' notice. There should beseverance pay, and before they leave you, they should have to find you a temp." --Bob Ettinger "I met a new girl at a barbecue, very pretty, a blond I think. I don't know, her hair was on fire, and all she talked about was herself. You know these kind of girls: 'I'm hot. I'm on fire. Me, me, me.' You know. 'Help me, put me out.' Come on, could we talk about me just a little bit?" --Garry Shandling

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend; Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop; Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. Then... Someone who changes your life by not being a part of it. Someone who makes you cry till you die. Someone who makes you believe that there is nothing good in this world. you open the door and find nothing...

Why is it that... I pray for you more that i pray for myself? Why is it that... I fear loosing you then most of my other friends? Why is it that... I become so restless when i dont talk to you? Why is it that... I get hurt most even on a smallest thing you do? Why is it that... I cant stay angry with you for long? Why is it that... You are the first thought when i open my eyes in the morning? Why is it that... You are my last thought when i close my eyes in the night? Why is it that... Even though i know i cant get you, i wait for you? Why is it that... Why is it that... Why is it that...

When you are away from someone very near and dear to you, it starts tempting to know more and more about what is going on in their life. But at the same time if you actually get to know what is happening with them, you start to feel sad about the fact that you are not a part of it. The fact that you staying in touch would disturb you for not being a part, but at the same time the fear that they might actually drift away from you, for you are not near to them and you getting replaced by someone else and you loosing them for ever looms over... Not sure exactly what to do in this situation...

When two people are involved in any kind of relationship and they see that its not a workable one, the normal course of action taken is to bring down the communication to a point where both are at the liberty of looking out for other possibilities. It becomes important for both of them not to feel tied down by the other. usually in such a situation one of them takes a firm decision who is more eager to look out. The other is reluctant to let go or is not prepared to bring it down at the same pace. The one who takes the firm decision will be in a more comfortable situation then the reluctant one and does not suffer as much as the other. The one in the comfortable situation finds another association and gets committed easily. The other suffers till a point he/she breaks down and destroys everything or becomes totally bound in his/her own world. Or takes a long long time before going back to the normal condition. It is very important that they are in touch with the other pers...

At times when you loose someone who was so close, even though you are very angry and hurt by them and don't even like to think about them, you still are sad for missing all the good times spent with them. All the things that were associated with them like their likes and dislikes, all the things that were said or told by them, all remind you of them. But all those thoughts which used to bring a smile to ur face, which made you also to like or dislike those things, now bring a deep painful feeling which distracts you from within and fills your life with bitterness. Every thing around you looks so dead.

S ometimes you get so close to someone, trust them so much, take for granted that they will be there for you always. Share all your news, events with them. They will be the first you tell something to. When there is some good news they are the first one who come to your mind to tell them how happy you are. when you are sad and feel you need some one to tell you they are with you, you think of them. You feel good when they give you some good news about themselves, tell you how much they enjoyed a movie. How they are going to enjoy an event in the company. What all they are going to do in the vacation. Send you the snaps from the events. Make you feel a part of their happiness... T hen something silly happens and exaggerated to a point that everything gets spoilt. You sit there helpless seeing the relationship getting ruined. You try to contain the damage, but things get worse. Then there is a void. You know you have reached a point where turning back is impossible. Now when y...

when a girl says she never loved you, she means she is in love with someone else. when a girl does not respond to your compliments anymore, she has found a new guy who gives her better compliments. when a girl does not respond to your messages but still asks for them, she wants the messages to forward it to someone else. when a girl says she needs some time to talk to you again after a fight she needs time to concentrate on someone else but still keep you as a option. When a girl says she has made many friends, She means she does not need you any more... She leaves at 6 on a friday evening, tells you that she is going home and does not reply to you till 9 in the night. It means only one thing...YOU WERE USED BY HER DUFFER...

The whole world seems to be conspiring against. I don't know what I have done is right or wrong at this stage. I know for sure that neither of us were wrong, but were victims of the same confusion. But definitely something is wrong because I am not happy for what I have done. This was the first time i got angry. I have said things that i should not have said. I have said things which i never ment. For four weeks I tried to be enduring. I always had a hope somewhere that things will be better soon. I was so very frustrated for the time it was taking. All that was a outburst of the frustration which found a opening when I was accused of something which I was trying to do away with. When I go thru all that which I had said I cant believe I had said all that. one thing I have learnt is never ever speak when you are angry or frustrated. I can not convey this because I have closed the doors on all the possibilities with my own hands. No one is to be blamed but destiny. Wish I could und...

The feeling of insecurity arises from the fear of loosing something very important. In such a situation you desperately try to hold on to what is so dear to you or which makes you feel secure. You even start suspecting the very thing about which you feel insecure. It may also arise from the fact that you are trying to hide something which you feel is not correct and don’t want others to know about it. You always stay in the fear that the whole world is observing you and you will be caught. This makes you angry with people who even though may not be actually knowing about it but you get specious that they know it and are keeping an eye on you. You try to get away from them. It may also arise from the situation around you when you feel you are running out of options. This is a most frustrating situation where in you don’t have much control on what’s happening around you or with you. You turn hostile to others and even to your self. Not realizing you are damaging your self and others in t...

A relationship that is just more than a friendship, but that can not be a long-term relationship for what ever reasons is a dilemmatic or a short term relationship. There are no perfect rules in this kind of relationship. * The involved partners can perceive what ever they require from that relationship. * The partners try to get the most of it with out the need to give any kind of commitment to their other partner. * Most of the time if either of them feels its getting to much involved do back track on what they had said or done. * The rule of the game is "know your limits and that of your partner". * Normally not seen when some one is committed or in a long-term relationship. * Be prepared to see yourself thrown out without reason from the relationship. * There is a very thin line between what is personal and what is a shared space between the two. * Normally very less importance is given to what state the other partner is in or what he or s...

some times when you get alone and find some one who shows some kindness, you forget that the other person also has his/her life of their own. You start taking for granted that the other person will be there for you always, understand you...u consider them some one very close to your heart and start taking out your desires, your frustration on them. or probably i will never understand the complexities of the relations. i have been very nasty and may be even cruel...or may have intruded too much into your personal life, when i was not even worth it... will always have the fear of getting close to any one else again...

Declaration: A work of fiction. A boy and a girl met. They both had met with the fate of destiny. They both shared so much in common, understood each other so well. But they had to depart from each other, again because of the fate of destiny. They used to still talk to each other, each day as they both used to miss each other a lot. They both liked each other's company. Both were alone in their own life and wanted someone to share there feelings with. But soon realized there was something more between them. Initially they continued it just for fun of it but found them selves getting involved deeper and deeper. Both were trying to control their feelings. The girl thought one day that there is no use to continue this way as this relation has no future nor they can give it an approval in the society. She also thought that the guy may do something stupid and create a scene and create trouble in his or her life. So she decided to stop all this and just maintain a normal relation with th...

Dil se khel ke tood deena, hasino ka dastoor hogaya, Khud se door karne ke liye, zaroori nahi dil toodna, Dil ke zaakm hai yeh, itene aasani se bharange nahi, lakh toodo dil yeh mera, jeene ki tammana choodenge nahi.

T he care and concern is taken as possessive and suspicious nature... T he fondness and desperate intimacy is taken as dependence and helplessness... O pening of the heart and looking for support is taken as a weakness...

For a relationship to continue, its very important to be in sight of each other. No matter how much you try to be in touch, begin far apart, it becomes difficult to maintain that bond. People start looking for new relationships which can keep them happy. Dragging a relationship which can not be more than some talks/chats becomes a liability from some. For others, a relationship, a bond means just more than some calls and chats. A sense of closeness, a sense of "appana paan" can be sensed from only in one call or conversation. You don't need many conversations to make that out. Others may not understand this kind of feelings. Some are just insensitive to other's feelings...

Never change the way you are… My friends used to call me an arrogant, over confident and flaunt chap. I was happy with the way I was, because I never felt what I was doing or the way I was, was something wrong. I always had it my own way…least bothered about what other think about me or if they care for me. I always had been a lonely creature, preferred to stay alone. I used to enjoy my own company. Never felt the requirement of anyone. I never had any relationships in my life. Never used to understand why people go for such relationships and waste their time. Used to feel out of the place or out of a group, where every other person was involved in such things. But me and myself were more important to me than anything else. Then there was a time when every thing around me was changing, so I decided to change myself to suit the world around me. And then the things began to become difficult for me. By trying to make others happy and making sure not to hurt an...

The heart is the only broken instrument that works. Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts. God can heal a broken heart, but He has to have all the pieces. What is the opposite of two? A lonely me, a lonely you. Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated. When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing. Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together. Love is like a puzzle. When you're in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together. If we must part...

Ever wondered why you feel so terrible when some says something which hurts, when at the same time other say or do some thing much more terrible and you don't feel bad or wont effect you for long. It all matters how much you consider the person in question. No matter how much you try you can not hate some people. You know that you can not react the same way to the other person and this helplessness makes you frustrated and push you in a terrible state. There no way out of it.

All taking breakfast... 

taking a puf...will tell no one...carry on... 

The Fort at Naldurg 

Even the climate is in a good mood 

Here enters the Hero for the day... 

preparing for the entry... 

Getting the royal welcome 

I am in the race too...Kiran 

Looking GOOD... 

this way or that way? 

thats the couple before the engagement... 

Having a bird's eye...looking for birds? 

Am i not shining...? 

Thats Pavaa.. 

My number is Next... 

Waiting for the ceremony 

Nervous? 

who is disturbing us... 

Mughale aazam... 

What a Pose.. 

in the golden frame 

is the makeup ok? 

what abou this? 

is this? 

is this ok?