Replaced...
The feeling when you get replaced by someone else is an unavoidable and helpless feeling. Getting replaced is like loosing your identity to someone else...like someone else has taken you name and place in the society.
You could be replaced anywhere, but anyone around you just accept the change and they don't feel the difference. They might not even realized something has changed. But you feel the difference because you were so much attached to the thing or place from which you were replaced.
You could be replaced at your very home. The kind of attention you used to get from other family members may change over time or change at the addition of some new family member. You could be the youngest at the family and you get all the attention and love, when there is a new sibling or when there is a new generation member getting added to the family, you feel isolated and let out. It could also happen if you are a decision making person in the family and every one consults you before taking any crutial decision in the family. But if someone else enters your family and takes all the attention and you become the second most important member...it does makes a difference. You can not change what is happening around you or you can influence the thinking of the family members and make them give you the same kind of importance. You feel helpless...
You could be replaced at your work place. Situations may arise when you need to relequense the position in your work place for a new team or some new assignment. You get replaced by another person who takes your place, looking after the things you used to handle before, own the code or module which you used to own, sets his own rules about how the things should be. What you thought would be the best thing or best way to do are just discarded without even consulting you or allowing you to give an explanation. You again feel helpless for you know its been owned by someone else and no more yrs.
You could be replaced in someone's life. You could be replaced in a person's life who used to share everything with you and now does not feel important at all to tell you things which you used to be first to know. Be it about a new job or something new which was purchased. The worst part is when you come to know about them from some one else. You cant force them to treat you as before as its their own personal decision or the person who has replaced you could be more dearer to them then you at this point of time. Most of the times you tend to get angry and feel deceived by such a treatment, which again makes you feel helpless...
You could be replaced anywhere, but anyone around you just accept the change and they don't feel the difference. They might not even realized something has changed. But you feel the difference because you were so much attached to the thing or place from which you were replaced.
You could be replaced at your very home. The kind of attention you used to get from other family members may change over time or change at the addition of some new family member. You could be the youngest at the family and you get all the attention and love, when there is a new sibling or when there is a new generation member getting added to the family, you feel isolated and let out. It could also happen if you are a decision making person in the family and every one consults you before taking any crutial decision in the family. But if someone else enters your family and takes all the attention and you become the second most important member...it does makes a difference. You can not change what is happening around you or you can influence the thinking of the family members and make them give you the same kind of importance. You feel helpless...
You could be replaced at your work place. Situations may arise when you need to relequense the position in your work place for a new team or some new assignment. You get replaced by another person who takes your place, looking after the things you used to handle before, own the code or module which you used to own, sets his own rules about how the things should be. What you thought would be the best thing or best way to do are just discarded without even consulting you or allowing you to give an explanation. You again feel helpless for you know its been owned by someone else and no more yrs.
You could be replaced in someone's life. You could be replaced in a person's life who used to share everything with you and now does not feel important at all to tell you things which you used to be first to know. Be it about a new job or something new which was purchased. The worst part is when you come to know about them from some one else. You cant force them to treat you as before as its their own personal decision or the person who has replaced you could be more dearer to them then you at this point of time. Most of the times you tend to get angry and feel deceived by such a treatment, which again makes you feel helpless...
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