Unavoidabe situations...
Even though you know what is happening, you allow your self to be pulled in some situation.
May be you have not learnt to say no, or just that you want to maintain a cordial relationship.
In the process you end up compromising on your own bargain. You always fail to understand how
people do this to you and even get away from it. It can be as simple as people just come to
you when they need some work to be done. You know they are talking to you only for getting
the work done, but yet you fail to turn them away. You also know that once the work is done,
they will never turn back and talk to you. You find your self in a helpless situation, not
able to turn them down. May be if you are in there place, even you may be doing the same thing
as they are doing. But at least make sure you don't stop talking to them once the work is done,
for there is always a next time when you happen to need their help.
May be you have not learnt to say no, or just that you want to maintain a cordial relationship.
In the process you end up compromising on your own bargain. You always fail to understand how
people do this to you and even get away from it. It can be as simple as people just come to
you when they need some work to be done. You know they are talking to you only for getting
the work done, but yet you fail to turn them away. You also know that once the work is done,
they will never turn back and talk to you. You find your self in a helpless situation, not
able to turn them down. May be if you are in there place, even you may be doing the same thing
as they are doing. But at least make sure you don't stop talking to them once the work is done,
for there is always a next time when you happen to need their help.
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