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One love...

It's kinda funny how life can change Can flip 180 in a matter of days Sometimes love works in mysterious ways One day you wake up gone without a trace The lyrics of the songs were never more meaning full. .... I refused to give up I refused to give in You're my everything I don't wanna give up I don't wanna give in, oh no .... Late at night I'm still wide awake Feel this is far more than I can take I thought my heart could never break Now I know that's one big mistake .... one more... why did u break my heart... Why did u fall in love... why did u go away... dil mera churiya kyu... Jab yeh dil toodna he tha... Hum se dil lagaya kyu... Hum se mooh mood na he tha... dil ko dhadkana tu ne C-kah-Ya... dil ko taadapna tu ne C-kah-Ya... Aakho mein aasu chupe they kahi... Inko chalak na tu ne C-Kha-Ya... C-Ne-Mein basaya kyu... dil se jab khel na hi tha... Hum se dil lagaya kyu... Hum se mooh mood na he tha... milte thi nazare jab bhi nazar se... ut te the shooley jais...

At the time of crisis...

Only negative thoughts come to mind when everything is not going well and human nature is to get tempted to end it rather then suffer... When there is a crisis we tend to find a more simpler cause or reason to convince ourselves that this was bound to happen, rather than go deep into the problem, apply a reasonable analysis and try to solve the problem. Most of the times we try to find reasons which have nothing to do with us. Just by saying "look she/he is seeing someone else so she/he initiated a fight over a silly reason and ended the relationship, I had nothing to do..." We try to get away from the problem. We always try to save our head then try to set things right.

Great Quotes by comedians...

"Relationships are hard. It's like a full-time job, and we should treat it like one. If your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to leave you, they should give you two weeks' notice. There should beseverance pay, and before they leave you, they should have to find you a temp." --Bob Ettinger "I met a new girl at a barbecue, very pretty, a blond I think. I don't know, her hair was on fire, and all she talked about was herself. You know these kind of girls: 'I'm hot. I'm on fire. Me, me, me.' You know. 'Help me, put me out.' Come on, could we talk about me just a little bit?" --Garry Shandling

Someone...

Sometimes in life, you find a special friend; Someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop; Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. Then... Someone who changes your life by not being a part of it. Someone who makes you cry till you die. Someone who makes you believe that there is nothing good in this world. you open the door and find nothing...

Why is it that...

Why is it that... I pray for you more that i pray for myself? Why is it that... I fear loosing you then most of my other friends? Why is it that... I become so restless when i dont talk to you? Why is it that... I get hurt most even on a smallest thing you do? Why is it that... I cant stay angry with you for long? Why is it that... You are the first thought when i open my eyes in the morning? Why is it that... You are my last thought when i close my eyes in the night? Why is it that... Even though i know i cant get you, i wait for you? Why is it that... Why is it that... Why is it that...

Temptation...

When you are away from someone very near and dear to you, it starts tempting to know more and more about what is going on in their life. But at the same time if you actually get to know what is happening with them, you start to feel sad about the fact that you are not a part of it. The fact that you staying in touch would disturb you for not being a part, but at the same time the fear that they might actually drift away from you, for you are not near to them and you getting replaced by someone else and you loosing them for ever looms over... Not sure exactly what to do in this situation...

This is how it works...

When two people are involved in any kind of relationship and they see that its not a workable one, the normal course of action taken is to bring down the communication to a point where both are at the liberty of looking out for other possibilities. It becomes important for both of them not to feel tied down by the other. usually in such a situation one of them takes a firm decision who is more eager to look out. The other is reluctant to let go or is not prepared to bring it down at the same pace. The one who takes the firm decision will be in a more comfortable situation then the reluctant one and does not suffer as much as the other. The one in the comfortable situation finds another association and gets committed easily. The other suffers till a point he/she breaks down and destroys everything or becomes totally bound in his/her own world. Or takes a long long time before going back to the normal condition. It is very important that they are in touch with the other pers...

how much people differ...

At times when you loose someone who was so close, even though you are very angry and hurt by them and don't even like to think about them, you still are sad for missing all the good times spent with them. All the things that were associated with them like their likes and dislikes, all the things that were said or told by them, all remind you of them. But all those thoughts which used to bring a smile to ur face, which made you also to like or dislike those things, now bring a deep painful feeling which distracts you from within and fills your life with bitterness. Every thing around you looks so dead.

That's Life...

S ometimes you get so close to someone, trust them so much, take for granted that they will be there for you always. Share all your news, events with them. They will be the first you tell something to. When there is some good news they are the first one who come to your mind to tell them how happy you are. when you are sad and feel you need some one to tell you they are with you, you think of them. You feel good when they give you some good news about themselves, tell you how much they enjoyed a movie. How they are going to enjoy an event in the company. What all they are going to do in the vacation. Send you the snaps from the events. Make you feel a part of their happiness... T hen something silly happens and exaggerated to a point that everything gets spoilt. You sit there helpless seeing the relationship getting ruined. You try to contain the damage, but things get worse. Then there is a void. You know you have reached a point where turning back is impossible. Now when y...

How to know if u have lost a girl

when a girl says she never loved you, she means she is in love with someone else. when a girl does not respond to your compliments anymore, she has found a new guy who gives her better compliments. when a girl does not respond to your messages but still asks for them, she wants the messages to forward it to someone else. when a girl says she needs some time to talk to you again after a fight she needs time to concentrate on someone else but still keep you as a option. When a girl says she has made many friends, She means she does not need you any more... She leaves at 6 on a friday evening, tells you that she is going home and does not reply to you till 9 in the night. It means only one thing...YOU WERE USED BY HER DUFFER...

The Conspiracy

The whole world seems to be conspiring against. I don't know what I have done is right or wrong at this stage. I know for sure that neither of us were wrong, but were victims of the same confusion. But definitely something is wrong because I am not happy for what I have done. This was the first time i got angry. I have said things that i should not have said. I have said things which i never ment. For four weeks I tried to be enduring. I always had a hope somewhere that things will be better soon. I was so very frustrated for the time it was taking. All that was a outburst of the frustration which found a opening when I was accused of something which I was trying to do away with. When I go thru all that which I had said I cant believe I had said all that. one thing I have learnt is never ever speak when you are angry or frustrated. I can not convey this because I have closed the doors on all the possibilities with my own hands. No one is to be blamed but destiny. Wish I could und...

Insecurity

The feeling of insecurity arises from the fear of loosing something very important. In such a situation you desperately try to hold on to what is so dear to you or which makes you feel secure. You even start suspecting the very thing about which you feel insecure. It may also arise from the fact that you are trying to hide something which you feel is not correct and don’t want others to know about it. You always stay in the fear that the whole world is observing you and you will be caught. This makes you angry with people who even though may not be actually knowing about it but you get specious that they know it and are keeping an eye on you. You try to get away from them. It may also arise from the situation around you when you feel you are running out of options. This is a most frustrating situation where in you don’t have much control on what’s happening around you or with you. You turn hostile to others and even to your self. Not realizing you are damaging your self and others in t...

Are you ready for a short term relationship?

A relationship that is just more than a friendship, but that can not be a long-term relationship for what ever reasons is a dilemmatic or a short term relationship. There are no perfect rules in this kind of relationship. * The involved partners can perceive what ever they require from that relationship. * The partners try to get the most of it with out the need to give any kind of commitment to their other partner. * Most of the time if either of them feels its getting to much involved do back track on what they had said or done. * The rule of the game is "know your limits and that of your partner". * Normally not seen when some one is committed or in a long-term relationship. * Be prepared to see yourself thrown out without reason from the relationship. * There is a very thin line between what is personal and what is a shared space between the two. * Normally very less importance is given to what state the other partner is in or what he or s...