The inner circle...

Its so very difficult to get into the inner circle of some people. The Inner circle called "Trust and Friendship". Without your knowledge someone enters your inner circle, you share your inner most secrets with them. But soon you realize you never were in their inner circle. You don't get those "just aise he.." calls. They don't feel it necessary to keep you in loop about something important that happens in their life. They don't reply to your casual "hey wats up..." gestures. I thought it takes time to make any relationship work. But I guess it's the frequencies of yours should match to develop such a relationship. But sometimes the situations and destiny keep you together, natural selection playing the prank, but you don't feel that intimacy even though you are together, some just don't realize that they mean a lot for someone...