Patanahi

some times when you get alone and find some one who shows some kindness, you forget that the other person also has his/her life of their own. You start taking for granted that the other person will be there for you always, understand you...u consider them some one very close to your heart and start taking out your desires, your frustration on them. or probably i will never understand the complexities of the relations. i have been very nasty and may be even cruel...or may have intruded too much into your personal life, when i was not even worth it... will always have the fear of getting close to any one else again...

Declaration: A work of fiction. A boy and a girl met. They both had met with the fate of destiny. They both shared so much in common, understood each other so well. But they had to depart from each other, again because of the fate of destiny. They used to still talk to each other, each day as they both used to miss each other a lot. They both liked each other's company. Both were alone in their own life and wanted someone to share there feelings with. But soon realized there was something more between them. Initially they continued it just for fun of it but found them selves getting involved deeper and deeper. Both were trying to control their feelings. The girl thought one day that there is no use to continue this way as this relation has no future nor they can give it an approval in the society. She also thought that the guy may do something stupid and create a scene and create trouble in his or her life. So she decided to stop all this and just maintain a normal relation with th...

Dil se khel ke tood deena, hasino ka dastoor hogaya, Khud se door karne ke liye, zaroori nahi dil toodna, Dil ke zaakm hai yeh, itene aasani se bharange nahi, lakh toodo dil yeh mera, jeene ki tammana choodenge nahi.

T he care and concern is taken as possessive and suspicious nature... T he fondness and desperate intimacy is taken as dependence and helplessness... O pening of the heart and looking for support is taken as a weakness...

For a relationship to continue, its very important to be in sight of each other. No matter how much you try to be in touch, begin far apart, it becomes difficult to maintain that bond. People start looking for new relationships which can keep them happy. Dragging a relationship which can not be more than some talks/chats becomes a liability from some. For others, a relationship, a bond means just more than some calls and chats. A sense of closeness, a sense of "appana paan" can be sensed from only in one call or conversation. You don't need many conversations to make that out. Others may not understand this kind of feelings. Some are just insensitive to other's feelings...