Patanahi

Context: Ross and Rachel have broken up. Ross is (trying to be) on a date with another women. Rachel bumps in... Rachel: If you don't find a way out, You should move on... Ross: Its so difficult to move on in life after what happened. Here i was sitting with a beautiful girl, she was so nice, so sweet, so very caring... yet i was thinking about you... Rachel: I know Ross, you will find someone nice realy soon. Its just a matter of time... Ross: Its easy for you to say, you had already found one. You had to just move on... Joey: You first find someone else, move on...then you breakup with the first one. Thats the way it goes. You breakup first, you are screwed man !!!

This is about a guy, a very dear friend of mine, whom I have lost to the wonderful social system we have. My friend is a very [vivacious] guy, the happiest person I have ever known, confident and courageous. Rather, he was -- till he got married. He works for one of the best companies in India. He is good at what he does. He has a wonderful career ahead of him. But he is not happy. The only time he is not depressed is when he is in his office. He dreads his wife's doubting character and a complaining nature. He would rather not go home. But, at the end of the day, he has to. He was married three years ago. Born in a cultured family, he grew up imbibing traditional values about family life. Among those, the 'responsibilities' of a son and a husband. He even gave up the girl he loved for the traditional values and for the for the honor of the family. Every morning, he wakes up at 6. He has to address all the issues in his family, to tackle before he can leave for office. He ...

Well friendship day was here. Its a good time to make new friends and wish them on this day. Its a much better time to sit back and retrospect about how many friends have we retained in the past year and how many friends have we lost because of our so called busy schedules. There are friends who would not have replied, yet there are many more to whom we have not replied for a long time. It hurts when someone who was once so close stops responding, hurts even more when you hear from them, but just you are one of the CC'ed or BCC'ed list. Yet we fail to realize that there might be others who might be just waiting to hear from you too. I guess we can retaining friends not by waiting for someone who is not responding to us, but in responding to someone who is waiting for us. Happy Friendship Day !!!

Life is a game, a game of musical chairs. The music played by destiny stops exactly when everything looks settled and we were starting to enjoying what was going on around us. Once the music stops, We start to panic and hurry up for grabbing the available chairs. Sometimes we get into the same group, but with different faces. Sometimes we don't get the desired "chair" and end up being a part of some other group. The roles remain the same in the group, just the people playing those roles differ. Sometime you play the central role in the group, dictating and planning what the group should do. Sometimes someone else takes over the group and you end up following what others say, just facilitating the group activities. Sometimes you get fed up with the group and want to break away. Only thing you can do is wait for the music to stop and life to take another turn. Sometimes you may also find yourself alone in the group...all you have to do is just wait...You never know what li...